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My PB + J

the journey of finding me.


“What you get by achieving your goals in not as important as what you become by achieving your goals” –Zig Ziglar 

When the year began all I knew was that I wanted to lose the weight from having two children. I knew it wouldn’t be easy because I hadn’t completely succeeded with the weight loss after having Payton. I suffered from severe post partum depression, I was unhappy with my job and I closed myself off from everyone including myself. I got pregnant again and was immediately worried about how I would regain a comfortable weight after giving birth to another child. I was more conscience during my second pregnancy, I walked more and had overcome my PPD. I wasn’t working due to pre-term labor and I began finding myself. We welcomed our baby boy to the world last October and I enjoyed the holidays. When the calender turned to 2012 I knew it was my year, my year to find the person I lost in early 2009. I began doing things that I enjoyed doing, I had people in my life that made me happy and reintroduced old friends back into my life because I finally left that old me behind. I’ve done a lot of soul searching this year and I am right where I want to be.

Back in January I started my journey here with the 17-Day Diet. I stuck to the diet and watched the pounds slip away. I was walking 5-10 miles a week and reintroduced spin into my routine logging over 60-hours within the first five months of the year. In May, I was introduced to The Dailey Method. I cut back on the spin classes and concentrated time in the studio. I had finally found an exercise that worked for me and that honestly made me feel whole. Now, let me tell you that if I felt like eating a cheeseburger, I did. If I had a craving for a Snickers I ate it. I have limited myself to one, yes, one iced latte or Starbucks double shot a week. Some weeks I might not have one but I have given myself a limit. I now drink iced unsweetened black or green tea. I have cut out 99.5% of soda or anything with carbonation. We do eat out but when I cook it’s usually minimally processed and whole. The Dailey Method and it’s values has taught me a lot. The last two months is where I really found myself. For the month of October I managed to tow both kids with me to the studio for twenty classes, while this was short of my goal I am still damn proud of myself. I have completed four 5k’s, I began doing these with girlfriends and honestly I had to sit back and reconsider why I was doing them. I have had a lot of support throughout my journey and doing activities for fun was my motivation. If you’re on a weight loss journey make sure that you have honest support from those around you, weight loss is not a competition, it’s about balance and finding what works best for you. Not all of my days have been easy and I hope that you understand that I mean this. I get burned out just like anyone else but as long as you stick to your goals, focus on your life and find something that works for you; you will get to your goal in no time!

In January, I had set two weight loss goals. The first was to weigh 140 by Brayden’s birthday, I am happy to report that with the help of The Dailey Method I lost ten pounds in two months bringing me one pound under my goal! It has never felt so good to see that number on the scale.

My second goal, which does not have a date, is to weigh 130. I am giving myself a few months into 2013 to achieve this as I am having foot surgery and will be out of commission for six weeks. This comes just in time to sit back and enjoy the holidays with my family. The celebration of finding the old me.

I have to thank everyone for the nice e-mails, texts and high fives as I have reached my goal of losing thirty pounds a healthy way!

November 4, 2012 6 Comments

it’s a weekly thang {weigh-in wednesday}

Yes, I am a day late and a dollar short. I feel like this week sped on by, I truly thought today was Wednesday. I guess it just shows we’re super busy over here! After last week I took one more class at The Dailey Method and then took what was planned to only be Friday and Saturday off but after the wig pub crawl I was still feeling sick so I skipped Sunday. I wasn’t happy about only making it three times last week but I am making up for it this week by taking five consecutive classes. I have completed three days and am a good sore. As Michelle said this morning, “at least you’re coming back with a smile”. I feel like getting there is always the hardest, I am so motivated to get there and once we start back dancing I know that hour class was worth it. My 30-day challenge is nearing the end, I have taken ten classes and my goal was sixteen, I can easily do this by next weekend! The owner, Stephanie, says you can noticeably see a difference after twelve classes and I started to see small changes last week. However, this week both Jim and I both noticed that my waist is curving in, something I have never had. I have always been stick straight until my hips and now I have some subtle curves. When I look into the mirror while doing many of the barre exercises I can see the skinnier me emerging. I usually tell that old me, hello and that it’s nice to see you again. Hey, if mentally engaging with myself keeps me motivated while doing thigh work I am okay with that!

Each day brings a new challenge. One day I might be super flexible and the next I am so tight that walking hurts. This is why I love The Dailey Method, I am working at my own pace and I make modifications that work for me. So what if I can’t hold both legs up to my nose while doing flat back on the wall, I make one chattery leg get half way there and I am satisfied. I am also down another pound this week! Slow, steady and healthy weight loss!

Next week is an exciting week for The Dailey Method! The one-year anniversary is next Saturday so I urge those in the San Diego area to take one of many free classes with free childcare on both Friday and Saturday to see what it’s all about! If you end up loving it, which I know you will, I then recommend that you start October 1st on the Fall 30-day challenge. The cost is $175 for non-members and includes many incentives like your chance at $100 Dailey dollars. The challenge also includes a daily meal plan. What’s a better way to kick-off Fall looking leaner, feeling stronger and being more fit? I can’t think of any, because my promise to myself last Winter was to never be fat again in a frumpy sweater. Look for a more detailed post about the anniversary event this coming week.

September 21, 2012 2 Comments

it’s a weekly thang {weigh-in wednesday}

Midnight is nearing so I better get this post up! I had to wait for the hubby to get home from traveling today to take a picture and I am so glad I did! This past week has been amazing in terms of finding strength in my mind, body and wellness. Like I mentioned last week I starting taking classes at The Dailey Method. My weekly minimum is getting in at least four classes and I did just that. I wanted to take five but by Friday I was beat so I took Friday off to rest and then hit the weekend strong. I am loving the classes more than ever even if yesterday was probably the worst for me in terms of being mentally engaged but I made it through and I felt great afterwards. Tonight’s class reconfirmed why I love taking classes at The Dailey Method.



When I arrive to the studio I am always greeted with friendly smiles and by name! All the instructors are fab and they all try to get to know you enough to create a great relationships. This is huge to me! I stopped taking Bikram because of the instructors and even some spin classes depending on who is instructing. Honestly, at The Dailey Method it doesn’t matter who the instructor is, you get a great workout and you leave feeling positive. Tonight’s class instructed by Michelle left me feeling energized. She gave me a high-five after class and applauded me on my hard work and dedication. I seriously could’ve cried. While I had felt deflated over the weekend she picked me right back-up. I have a goal and gosh darn it I will get there! It doesn’t matter if one day my legs chatter like crazy or the next I can hold my low c-curve without holding on. I am working at my own pace and I am loving it! 
Each night my body is sore, a good, healthy sore. I can see a change and I am getting addicted seeing my old body re-emerge. While the road is still long, my butt is being lifted (thank you seated pretzel!) and my core is a lot stronger. The other day I was complaining that the skin below my belly button would never tighten up and would you believe that today there are barely any wrinkles in the skin? It’s happening people! Believe in yourselves and believe that with hard work and dedication you will see the results you are working towards! 

In terms of my weight, I have lost another pound. I believe in the next two weeks the pounds will start coming off a little faster but we shall see. I’ll take a pound at a time…

How was your week? Your challenge?

On another note, thank you to all who have e-mailed me about inspiring you to reach your goals. You brighten my day and keep me going!

Want to take a class at The Dailey Method? There are three San Diego locations (Rancho Bernardo/  Encintas / Downtown) or visit the website for a location near you, it’s only $8 for your first week!

September 13, 2012 1 Comment

it’s a weekly thang {weigh-in wednesday}

Hi, do you remember when I told you back in June that I was taking some time off of my weekly weigh-ins? Well, that happened and now I am back to share the final leg of my weight-loss journey. Since January 3rd I have lost a total of twenty-four pounds and enough inches that I’m embarrassed to even document them again. I maintained my current weight over the Summer but with the help of The Dailey Method I plan on reaching my year-end goal by Brayden’s first birthday next month. This means I have roughly nine pounds to lose to get to my pre-pregnancy weight with Payton. So doable and honestly it’s so close! Of course, there are additional goals but this last goal is for 2012. 
Back in June my six-week membership with The Dailey Method had expired and I had been yearning to get back into the studio. That was until last week when I began taking classes again and it felt amazing, who would’ve thought that a 45-minute express class would leave me feeling that sore! Over the next month I have been challenged to a 30-day challenge along with three other San Diego based mommy bloggers. Our challenge is to take a minimum of four classes per week – again, doable! It has left me re-energized about my health, my goals and my body. 

If you’re unfamiliar with The Dailey Method it is a one-hour full-body workout that combines ballet barre work, core conditioning, stretching, and orthopedic exercises. The workout effectively strengthens, tones, and lengthens muscles in the entire body while simultaneously increasing one’s mind-body awareness. You leave the studio feeling refreshed, challenged and stronger. It’s amazing how addictive it is even if my legs chatter like crazy and I can’t hold the positions longer than three seconds the results are still amazing and noticeable. The Dailey Method studios can be found all over: California, Arizona, Colorado, Illinois, Indiana, Missouri, Nevada and Utah. There are even studios in British Columbia and Paris! To find a location near you visit: thedaileymethod.com

For my 30-day challenge I will be sharing my weekly weigh-in’s once again. This time with…dun, dun, dun…PICTURES! eek! I want to crawl in a hole already but it’s to hold myself accountable. I can find a million things wrong with this week’s picture but be kind lovely readers. I am a mom of two, I’ve got saggy skin (well, saggy everything), I live in my yoga pants, I still look three months preggo and there are days where I don’t do my hair. I’ve got goals and a deadline fast approaching. Come along with me on my final month of my weight loss journey.  

current weight: 146  |   goal: 137 

Disclaimer: I received a one-month membership with childcare for review purposes. Regardless, I only recommend products/services that I would use and believe my readers would enjoy. 

September 5, 2012 2 Comments

it’s a weekly thang {weigh-in wednesdays}

well, today officially marks two days from my 30th birthday. if any of you remember when i started my weight loss journey the first of the year you will remember that this week was my goal week. while i met my first weight loss goal of weighing 148 pounds i did not meet my second goal (as of yet) to weigh 139. honestly, i am more than okay with this even though i am sick of being at this plateau. i say this because i finally feel good in my skin. when i look into the mirror i see the old me emerging. while it’s a more mature, motherly me, it’s a happy place. i tell myself on a daily basis and am reminded by strangers how great i look for having two children. the skin is still recovering from being stretched like a mo-fo twice and if my saggy pooch never fully goes away that’s okay, i am proud of my battle scars.

as i mentioned in may, i began taking classes at the dailey method. i managed to take twenty-two classes and for that i am proud of myself. i have gotten a lot stronger, flexible (yet not enough) and i can see several changes within my body. i have lost inches everywhere, but more noticeably in my waist (thank you high c-curve) and my butt is sitting up a lot higher. i am sad my six-week membership is over but will be returning as soon as i score another great deal. i guess i will be returning to spin classes and hitting the pavement for some thinking time as i run. for everyone who provided encouragement over the past six months thank you. i still have a weight-loss journey ahead but i won’t be concentrating on it so much daily, i will hit my year-end goal by brayden’s first birthday in october, you just wait and see!

here’s my number’s once again.



my starting weight: 170 
today’s weight: 148
 week one: 6 pounds
 week two: 3 pounds
 week three: 1 pound
 week four: 1 pound
 week five: 3 pounds 
 week six: 0 pounds 
week seven: 2 pounds 
week eight: 1 pound 
week nine: +.6 ounces 
 week ten: 2.6 pounds  
 week eleven: 0 pounds 
week twelve: +.02 ounces
 week thirteen: +2.4
week fourteen: 3.2 
week fifteen: 1 pound 
week sixteen: 0 pounds
week seventeen: didn’t weigh-in
week eighteen: 1 pound
 total weight loss for week nineteen: 0 pounds 

total weight loss: 22 pounds  
pounds away from goal #1: 0
pounds away from goal #2: 9

MEASUREMENTS- 

bust – 
today 34″ (34C) was 36″ in february and 38″ (38D) in january 
waist – 
today 30″ was 32″ in february was 41″ in january 
hips –
 today 38.5″ was 39″ in february was 43″ in january  

i’ve lost 2″ additional inches in my thighs and arms from doing TDM



 

June 20, 2012 6 Comments

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Hello! I am Melissa, a quad espresso addict, health-nut wannabe, mommy to two adorable kids and married since 2007. I love sharing about our family life in San Diego. We visit Disneyland way too often, make sure to follow me on @treatsofdisneyland. I love movies and I have a photography business, @mypbandjphoto. You're likely to see a little bit of all of that here on my blog that I started in 2008.

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